Keep the good strong. See the fog clearly. Leave kindly what’s done.
Regardi is a steward for your relationships — romantic and friendship alike. It helps you tend the ones worth keeping (appreciation, small perks, early-warning check-ins), and when one turns foggy, it replaces 2am spirals with your own observed record: what it actually gives you, what it actually costs you, and what you want to do about it. Stay, renegotiate, or leave — your call, made clearly.
How it works
Healthy relationships live in Tend mode — kept strong on purpose. If one drifts, the Journey opens. Regardi is equally at home with “stay and renegotiate” as with “leave”: no breakup quota, no stay quota. A clarity quota.
Tend
The default for good relationships: appreciation, perks tied to real moments, and gentle early-warning watching.
Clarity
20-second check-ins after contact build a picture no rumination can: energy, feelings, give and take.
Decision
A guided, honest fork: what would need to change, is it realistic, have you asked — stay or go.
Exit well
Scripts, boundaries, urge-to-text support, and grief care — for breakups and friendship endings alike.
Reset
Extract the pattern: what you tolerated, what you ignored early, and your own part in it.
Charter
Leave with a document about yourself — standards, dealbreakers, early-warning signs — for next time.
What no other app does
Breakup apps start after it ends. Couples apps assume it should continue. Regardi tends what’s good, starts in the fog when it isn’t — and sees across your relationships.
The pattern engine
Map a relationship and a friendship, and Regardi starts noticing what repeats: “You’re the only one initiating — in both.” The people change; the pattern is yours. Seeing it is how the next relationship starts differently.
A companion, not a cheerleader
A clear-eyed AI companion that knows your record, meets you in the hard moments, and points at your own data instead of its opinions. It’s equally comfortable helping you repair as helping you leave — and it measures success by you needing it less.
Just went through a breakup?
Start there. Map the relationship that ended, understand what actually happened — and make sure the next one doesn’t rhyme with it.
A note on safety: Regardi is for unfulfilling relationships — not dangerous ones. If you ever feel afraid of, controlled by, or unsafe with someone, that deserves human help, and the app will always point you there first. In the US, the domestic violence hotline is 1-800-799-7233 (24/7, confidential).